Why analyze gestures

Introduction

You from a judgement of a person in the first 30 seconds. Your speeker too.

It is thus important to know which signs we send back to the others.

But it can also turn out useful to be able to decipher the feeling which crosses our interlocutor to adapt better our speech.

It is rather easy to decipher these indirect messages.

Proportion in a dialogue

speech 7% voice 32% Gestures 55%

The understanding of a subject depends strongly on what is coming with, For more than a half , it is the gestures which give the understood sense.

Consistency

Signs must be given consistent.
What means only a smile ? is it joy or mockery?

for good amalysis, all signs must be considered.

If this is the case with your partner, It is also true for you.
If you have a severe speech and the tone of your voice is playful, he will not be understood.

The ultimate secret to properly convay a message is to be congruent.
That is, your thoughts your words and your actions give the same message.